1.
Based on your reflections, and on a
scale of 1 to 10 (ten being optimal wellbeing), where do you rate your
A-physical wellbeing, B-spiritual well-being, C-psychological well-being? Why?
My
physical wellbeing I would rate a 7. I do not believe that I am in the best
shape of my life right now, but I am being physical. When I have time I love
running, walking, biking, and rollerblading at least once a week. I listen to
my body when it is time to rest and relax my muscles.
My
spiritual wellbeing I would rate a 6. This score is much higher that I would
have rated it a year ago. I have started going to church and really enjoying
the sermons. After I found out my grandma was in the hospital I started praying
multiple times a day and being closer to god for strength for my family.
Psychological
wellbeing I would rate an 8. I think I am doing a great job at keeping it all
together in my mind and when I need it I give myself time to reflect on things
that are done and things I need to do. Some days it can be rough juggling a 40+
hour week, school, homework, cleaning, and being a single parent.
2.
Develop a goal for yourself in each
area (physical, spiritual, psychological).
Physical-
I can use different techniques to relax muscles and tension.
Spiritual-
find a way to get rid of my negative mind and implement healthy, positive
thoughts and actions into everyday life all day.
Psychological-
make time every day to let my body and mind relax.
3.
What activities or exercise can you
implement in your life to assist in moving toward each goal?
For a
better physical wellbeing I can implement listening exercises to relax my body,
mind, and spirit.
For a
better spiritual wellbeing I can try to commit myself to letting go of negative
feelings and stop letting stress overcome my mind.
For a
better psychological wellbeing sticking to the listening exercises, and a
positive mind. I can also make time for reflecting everyday, this will help me
make a list of things I need to do, what has been done, and what I can hold off
on.
4.
Complete the relaxation exercise The
Crime of the Century. To hear this exercise, click here. Describe your experience. (What it
beneficial? Frustrating? etc.)
My
experience with this listening exercise was very relaxing. The moment he began
talking about using my body as a prism for white light to come through and
imagine the colors of the rainbow I became very warm. The warmest place was my
spine. The bottom of the spine was in relation with the color red and being
grounded. It was a little harder for me to experience many of the other areas
the speaker was talking about. At the end of the recording I felt rejuvenated,
and awake. Going into this exercise I was feeling tired and sore. I feel so
much better after doing this exercise especially my spine. My back feels much
better than it did before going into the exercise. The only negative feeling I
had about this exercise was the length. I felt it was a little too lengthy, but
that may have to do with the little experience I have with listening exercises.
Hi Nellie, I enjoyed your post. What I really liked about it was that you are making progress in all the areas that we were asked to examine. I firmly believe that forward motion is better than none at all. You are doing a great job, and I know that keeping up with a 3 yar old keeps you very physically active, as well. And keeps you praying, LOL.
ReplyDeleteAs for the relaxation exercise, I enjoyed it, but I liked the Journey On exercise more. I wasn't able to visualize the colors as well as I would have liked to. Have a great week!
Hi Nellie, Great job on your improvement in all the areas we had to evaluate. Being a single parent is a full time job too. So basically you have two jobs and all of the other stuff too. Its a lot of work but it will be worth it in the end. You will have the satisfaction knowing that you started and completed something. It will also be something that your daughter will be able to look up to and be proud of her mom.
ReplyDeleteI have to say that I enjoyed the previous relaxation session better. I did like the feeling of warmth that I received while doing this one but trying to imagine the colors of the prism was harder. I guess that just means I have more practice to do. :)
Stacey Clark
Hi Nellie, I really liked your post. You are juggling quite a bit and it is not easy. I have learned that what helps me a lot it that I learned to stop worrying. It does not change a thing and just makes you feel like crap. I talk to God every day and once I started giving him all my issues and really believed it, things started falling into place and became so much easier.
ReplyDeleteIf you can, try to find some time each week to do the relation exercise again. It was so nice to really relax and I think we all need that.
Take care of yourself, I hope your family is proud of you, you're amazing!
Kristy Butler